Introduction

Romans 8:26–30 ESV

26 Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.
27 And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.
28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.
29 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.
30 And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.

Let us pray!

If evangelical Christianity had a dictionary of tangled terms, ‘calling’ would be one of the reigning champions in linguistic gymnastics.

It is a dangerous thing I suppose to give a preacher the pulpit and ask him to preach on any subject under the sun. Our regular expository preaching is a good way to keep the preacher in check. However, from time to time, such an exercise in topical preaching would do us all some good.

And that is where we are, at the second of a two week break from our expository series from the Gospel of Matthew.

In these two weeks, I am determined to preach on subjects that I feel are most helpful in our local context.

It was Doug Wilson who said that a good pastor must be a good student of the Bible and a good student of the culture. Not that he is discipled by culture but that he has a strong grip of the times.

He must know the word and know the times he lives in where the word is applied.

And today, I have a bone to pick with our modern evangelical understanding of the word ‘calling’.

In my own life in the ministry, if I’ve ever developed a distaste for a word, it is the word ‘calling’.

And yes, the title of this sermon is as clickbaity a title as you can find. What is your calling? How can you know it, and how do you pursue it?

What is the secret to knowing your calling? Hopefully, by the end of this sermon, you will know.

The Mystery of ‘Calling’

At the very heart of it, the word ‘calling’ presupposes something – destiny.

That you and I are not here in this world by chance. That there is a purpose for our existence and that purpose is not something we make up for ourselves.

We are trying to hear the ‘call’. There are external forces at play as far as we’re concerned calling us take up the mantle.

If we want to know our ‘calling’, then we presuppose that there is someone calling us.

Different religions and cultures attribute this call as coming from nature, idols, movie stars and aliens – take your pick.

But we, Christians, know who called us out of the darkness and into the light. We know who called us out of the grave and into eternal life.

It matters to us who calls. Because we don’t pursue destiny like the world pursues it.

We ought not be looking for worldly advice to try and understand what we should do with our lives. We ought to be looking to Christ.

It matters who calls. You don’t heed the call of a stranger the same way you heed the call of a friend.

At the very heart of it, the word ‘calling’ presupposes destiny – a plan and a purpose laid out for us by Christ.

You don’t step away from exchanging the vows at your wedding because you thought your phone rang.

But how do we discern God’s plan for us? So many Christians struggle in this regard and look so much more like the world in how they pursue their calling.

There’s conflict and confusion between desires, opinions, advices, talents and opportunities.

And we often grope in the dark just like unbelievers.

The mystery of the word ‘calling’ lies with this confusion, and this confusion arises because of a lack of categories in many people’s minds.

And mind you, I’m not talking just about the ‘call’ to the pastorate or preaching and teaching. I’m talking about every Christian’s consideration as to what they are called to do in life.

I’ve heard so many people say things like,

• I think I’m called to be a counsellor

• I think I’m called to be a prayer warrior or an intercessor

• God has called us as a family to have an open home where people are welcome to pray and fellowship with one another

• I think I’m called to teach the Bible

• I think I’m called to minister among the orphans and the widows

• I think I’m called to be an evangelist

and the list goes on and one and on.

So, you may ask me, what is wrong with that Pastor Mike? Why do you dislike the word ‘calling’ so much?

Here is why.

• Who among you are instructed never to counsel another?

• Who among you can excuse yourself from interceding for another?

• Who among you has the right to make your house a closed home where people are not welcome?

• Who among you never have to teach the Bible to another person?

• If true religion is caring for widows and orphans (James 1:27), how many of you Christians have the pardon to avoid widows and orphans altogether?

• Who among you does not have to evangelise ever?

Do you see the problem I have with the modern use of the word ‘calling’?

Christians are running around like headless chickens, hunting for their life’s calling, while the Bible is practically shouting out instructions on what to be and what to do.

But what about, 1 Cor 12:29-30

1 Corinthians 12:29–30 ESV

29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles?
30 Do all possess gifts of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret?

Here is where the people fail to think categorically, to make the appropriate distinctions. There is a difference between the ‘call’ to a specific ‘office’ or ‘position’ that some are appointed to, but for the vast majority of people a calling of this kind would simply not apply.

You cannot hear a calling that is not there. The point is that Biblical faithfulness or destiny has nothing to do with an ‘office’ or a ‘position’.

You see, we have a narrow view of what ‘calling’ looks like and we search and search for it, many a times overlooking what is right in front of us.

A principle that applies here is Matthew 16:26

Matthew 16:26 ESV

26 For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?

What does it profit a man to gain the pulpit and lose his son? What does it profit a man to become a certified counsellor at the cost of neglecting his family? What does it profit a man to become an evangelist if he has no local church to bring his converts to?

How about if we stopped thinking of calling from the perspective of office or position, and started thinking about it from the perspective of relationships?

What is my calling in life? God has called me to be a dad! This is my calling in life.

To love my wife, to share the Gospel with my neighbours, to live a holy life, to help the needy, to serve the tables, to comfort the broken, to pray for the desperate, to teach the little ones, to set an example, to admonish the disobedient, and to love the church.

If I thought so much about my ’calling’ as so many I know do, I wouldn’t be doing half the things I am doing presently in my life. I get asked often how I manage to do so many things in a week, and I suppose that the apt answer for most people is, “because I just do it”.

If you ask me why I do it, I would probably say, “because Christ is calling me to”.

Understanding ‘Calling’

Our understanding of the word ‘calling’ or our use of it is primarily directed at the special office or position of authority that people were called into in the Bible.

From the OT to the NT, we read of how God called Noah, Abraham, Jacob, Joseph, David, Isaiah, Jeremiah, and all the prophets and judges and kings and rulers, and apostles and teachers.

Jeremiah 1:4–10 ESV

4 Now the word of the Lord came to me, saying,
5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.”
6 Then I said, “Ah, Lord God! Behold, I do not know how to speak, for I am only a youth.”
7 But the Lord said to me, “Do not say, ‘I am only a youth’; for to all to whom I send you, you shall go, and whatever I command you, you shall speak.
8 Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you, declares the Lord.”
9 Then the Lord put out his hand and touched my mouth. And the Lord said to me, “Behold, I have put my words in your mouth.
10 See, I have set you this day over nations and over kingdoms, to pluck up and to break down, to destroy and to overthrow, to build and to plant.”

• Now, we all want to believe that there is such a calling reserved for all of us, and I am not here to tell you that isn’t true.

I’m here to tell you that there is such a calling reserved for all of us, and that calling has been clearly given to all of us already in the New Testament.

1 Peter 2:4–5 ESV

4 As you come to him, a living stone rejected by men but in the sight of God chosen and precious,
5 you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.

Ephesians 1:18 ESV

18 having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints,

Ephesians 4:1 ESV

1 I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called,

Philippians 3:14 ESV

14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

All of these apply to all of you.

You are all called ‘like’ Jeremiah was called, but you are not all called to an exclusive office or position like Jeremiah was called. Some are called to such offices, but not all.

Some, more excellent than others

Matthew 25:14–30 ESV

14 “For it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted to them his property.
15 To one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability. Then he went away.
16 He who had received the five talents went at once and traded with them, and he made five talents more.
17 So also he who had the two talents made two talents more.
18 But he who had received the one talent went and dug in the ground and hid his master’s money.
19 Now after a long time the master of those servants came and settled accounts with them.
20 And he who had received the five talents came forward, bringing five talents more, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me five talents; here, I have made five talents more.’
21 His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’
22 And he also who had the two talents came forward, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me two talents; here, I have made two talents more.’
23 His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’
24 He also who had received the one talent came forward, saying, ‘Master, I knew you to be a hard man, reaping where you did not sow, and gathering where you scattered no seed,
25 so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. Here, you have what is yours.’
26 But his master answered him, ‘You wicked and slothful servant! You knew that I reap where I have not sown and gather where I scattered no seed?
27 Then you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and at my coming I should have received what was my own with interest.
28 So take the talent from him and give it to him who has the ten talents.
29 For to everyone who has will more be given, and he will have an abundance. But from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.
30 And cast the worthless servant into the outer darkness. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

• This parable teaches us that God even in giving the widespread call of the Gospel to all believers, he apportions talents and gifts, and even faith in different measures.

1 Corinthians 7:17 ESV

17 Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches.

The NIV translation uses the word ‘situation’.

We are to lead godly lives in the situation that God has placed us in. That is the rule in all the churches.

And so with what we are given, if we are faithful, we honour the Master and he rewards us.

• So many who go in search of that hidden ‘calling’ are like the servant who buried his talent, because he was busy chasing after other things.

• You will find that in this varied measure that God appoints, some will be more effective and more recognised in the same things that you do. This is not because they have a ‘higher calling’ than you.

Serve faithfully in your own situation and you too will be rewarded in time.

If you pit your hope on the outcome of these things, you will be envious of others and pierce yourselves with many sins.

Your hope is in Christ and you are to gladly and joyfully serve in the situation God has assigned to you. It is pride that looks to be more than the other.

Exegesis

Romans 8:26 ESV

26 Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.

• We do not know how to pray, let alone knowing our exclusive calling. That’s where Paul starts us off. On a map of your journey, ‘this is where you are’. In your weakness, you don’t know how to pray, and the Holy Spirit helps you.

• Oh but brothers, do not belittle this picture. Because it is here where a man gains familiarity with the mind of God. It is in this weak and desperate place where words fall and groanings rise that a man is well acquainted with the Holy Spirit.

Such a man will have no confusions regarding his calling, for he knows how to rest upon the Spirit of God.

Romans 8:27 ESV

27 And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.

• God who searches the hearts of all men knows the intercesion of the Spirit on their behalf. And this intercession is always according to God’s will, and so is always granted.

Romans 8:28 ESV

28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

• Who are these who love God? They are the ones groaning in the Spirit. From that place of prayer and groaning comes a love for God.

• And for such, all things work together for good. Why? Because the Spriti is interceding for good and the Father answers this intercession with good.

• And then we have the word we’re looking for – these who love are ‘called’ according to his purpose.

How does one know God’s purposes?

Romans 12:1–2 ESV

1 I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.
2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

By a mind that is renewed.

God has revealed many of his purposes clearly in Scripture and the one who presents himself as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, in worship to God, are less like the world and more conformed to God’s word.

These are faithful servants in their situations, and such faithfulness is often rewarded with greater purposes. Not for fame or pride or selfish gain. But which Master is there who will not give more work to a faithful servant who does well.

Luke 16:10 ESV

10 “One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much, and one who is dishonest in a very little is also dishonest in much.

Being faithful in the purposes of God that are already revealed to you is the road to being faithful to all that he will reveal to you in the future.

Romans 8:29–30 ESV

29 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.
30 And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.

• In the NT use of the word ‘calling’, the vast majority of it does not address an exclusive call to an ‘office’ or a high ‘position of authority’, or even to success and fame.

It talks about the priesthood of all believers and the faithfulness to which we all are called.

• We are called to be justified – the call of salvation is the heart of all that we do.

Conclusion

• You are called to be Christian, to be conformed to the image of his Son

• Folly on either end

Here is a helpful quote from Doug Wilson,

We are called, all of us, to live in the will of God. But remember the difference between His revealed will for all Christians, and, after that, what are your abilities, your opportunities, and your desires. The first is a function of obedience. The second is a function of wisdom.

When those three things line up, then go for it.

• Desire

• Opportunity

• Ability